Also check out Gritty Woman’s video review of Bad Dragon! Their silicone is super squishy apparently. While they have some big (and weird) dildos, they have narrower ones, too. They aren’t cheap but I haven’t seen squishy silicone like that before.

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Thanks for the heads up. I like the look of the Ergo Mini, it looks very easy to insert and it’s something that looks like it could work in a harness as well. Which we’ve been looking to try, but we needed to find something beginner friendly. Epiphoria recommends the Mustang, but that is one expensive dildo. For some reason there’s no price though on the Blush website.

Hi there!
1) Another company with dual density toys is Blush Novelties. Check out their Real Nude line.
2) Fellow vaginismus warrior here, you can find me on Twitter (@RynJ21) along with lots of super interesting people. Join us. We have dildo pics!

Girth would definitely be an issue. I did find the Mona 2 a bit wide, but the way it’s tapered makes it a lot easier to insert. I’m still a little peeved I haven’t been able to find my G spot with it. Epiphora mentions that she just has to put it inside and the rumbling somehow gets her G spot going. I tried that just this afternoon after coming about 4 times or so and I got nothing. I even tried putting a finger inside to see if I could feel it, but again, nothing.

When you put it that way Twitter sounds a bit easier to understand. I’ll have to give it a try.

I have the Cush O2 and the Flurry O2 and the Cush is fat. Quite a lot of girth on that one. So, I don’t know if that would be an issue for you. The Flurry is a more average size and made of the same material. They both have ridges but in different places.

Twitter is pretty simple once you figure it out. Basically just follow some people you think sound interesting and you’ll see everything they post. If you want to say something directly to someone but publicly you start the tweet with the @ and their name. You can Direct Message if you want it not to be public but you can only DM people if they are also following you.

The hashtag thing isn’t totally necessary. You use it when you want people to find it when they search for something. Like I might tweet about a promotion that’s going on and I would put #sextoys in the tweet. So when someone searches for #sextoys they’ll see my tweet. You don’t really have to use them and most people don’t use them all the time.

Well if you want to give it another try you can follow me and I’ll follow back.

edited:
I was thinking, if ridges don’t work for you, Tantus makes a dildo in three sizes called the Silk. It’s completely smooth with no ridges or pronounced head. It’s not the O2 silicone, just their regular silicone which I’ve not tried yet so, I don’t know how squishy it is. Check it out Tantus Silk

I just left a message for her on her Cush review, which is one of her favourite in the O2 line. I wanted to know which was squishier, and if the ridge on the Cush hurts at all. The only dildo I own has a similar ridge, but I think it sticks up a bit more than the Cush’s, but it’s so painful on insertion and withdrawal. I regret spending the money on it. But it was the first 100% silicone dildo I ever bought and it was supposed to help me with dilation. I don’t even remember what the maker is. There is some give to it, but it’s that ridge that’s the killer.

I am on Twitter but I never really use it. It always looked really complicated to me. Like when you want to question a post on there you have to somehow send out a hashtag or something… I don’t know, it’s so weird to use. I’m used to Facebook.

Okay, I’ll do that. I might end up buying lingerie on there, since they have some good prices. And we’ve been needing some new lube since the Wet Original isn’t cutting it anymore. It’s too tacky and dries up too quickly.

No Vixskin for me yet but I WANT to try it. The two product lines that are dual density silicone are the Tantus O2 line and Vixskin. I don’t think there are any other manufacturers that make dual density. Basically, it is a firm silicone core covered with a squishier outer layer of silicone. I don’t know how the two lines compare to each other. Epiphora has reviewed both, you could ask her which is squishier.

And there’s a wide range of squish when it comes to silicone toys. It can vary quite a bit. I don’t have enough experience to say which manufacturers have softer silicone but I could ask on Twitter where I might get answers from veteran sex toy reviewers. Are you one Twitter? There’s a lot of sex toy information to be found there.

That’s a good question about bookmarking the link. I’m not sure. I’d have to ask around. The surest way is when you’re ready to purchase just stop by here and click through. Most of the links to retailers on my site are affiliate links but I do have a few that are direct, nonaffiliate links because the retailers require it. This review has two that are not affiliate links. They would be the two that have lovehoney in the URL. The affiliate links have shareasale in the URL.