Yeah, maybe someday I will have the courage to do it.

Thank you for the compliment. I was a little nervous about posting it. And thanks for the advice. Maybe some day I’ll feel confident enough to try.

I’m so intrigued honestly, at least as a lesbian, by how popular pegging has become. Strapons and harnesses were such a novelty or even bizarre idea to most hetero people I knew not too long ago now everyone is talking about them. I’ve helped advise people on what ones to buy and how to get more pleasure for the wearer and its just.. Amusing I guess. Sort of makes that aspect of lesbian sexuality more mainstream.

With that said, don’t beat yourself up if you’re nervous. You’ll work your way up to it. Just trying the harness on like you did and all is a great first step. If I was into men I think I’d be more nervous because hey thrusting like that isn’t as natural for any woman as for a man. II don’t think you have to worry at all about hurting him though you’ll perhaps be a bit sore after, on your pubic mound and also from using muscles in a different way than you’re used to. But it’s fun, I promise! And if dizzyguy has a flashlight or even a stroker of any sort, you could always privately practice with that first, get a feel for things and all.

The warm up looks awesome, the head would probably feel even better on a prostate than the silk small, I’d guess. Looks like it’d be great for anal on anyone. If I had a partner right now I’d so get one. May get one anyway because it looks fun. And I was so just talking to someone online looking for good beginner pegging toys and he and his partner were considering Tantus… They were torn between the Sport and Silk Small and I told him the sport would be noticeably larger, maybe too big, but this looks like the best of both worlds, literally what happens if the silk small and sport were combined! So awesome, going to have to go mention this to him.

Good luck on your future pegging adventure too. Like I said, you look great in the harness!

Yeah, it’s fairly flexible but still firm enough that it’s not going to bend when you try to insert it into the butt.

I also like that you described it for those of us who aren’t so into having things up our bum. I’ve been looking for something that will get me ready for anal. Does it bend easily? That seems to be an issue for me.

Annndddd, pegging isn’t a natural instinct for everyone, just like PIV isn’t either. Don’t beat yourself up for being nervous about it. It’s like wine: some people love it right off, some people don’t like it at first but then love it, and some people hate it from the first taste.

(Wine comparisons for the win!)