I’ve always been aroused and fascinated by double penetration. Not two dicks in one orifice but one in the ass and another in the vagina. It looks so hot in porn and the thought of having it really turns me on. I probably couldn’t actually handle DP but I like to fantasize that I can. Dizzyguy and I have done a little DP with toys and it’s fun and all but in my mind, it doesn’t compare to being stuffed full of cock.
Now you might be wondering why I never tried it while we were swinging…. it was mostly out of fear. Back then, we’d only tried (unsuccessfully) to have anal sex once. It was quite painful and put me off of trying it again. We had no idea what we were doing and I guess we thought you could just jump right into it. Now we know all about relaxation and everything.
It was actually one of the couples that we hooked up with that advised us to try having anal in the spooning position. We tried it one day after dizzyguy got my ass nice and relaxed with his fingers and we were amazed how easily he slipped right in. We have continued to have anal sex that way ever since. So you see, I’m not an anal sex veteran… really still kind of a beginner. I think the rigors of DP would probably be too much for me. And since we don’t swing anymore, there’s no chance of it happening, except with toys, which is fine.
When we were swinging though, I got to live vicariously through the other woman twice. The first time, I got the girl good and drunk (shame on me, I know) and orchestrated the DP. Now that I think about it, I seemed to get a lot of the action going when we played with other couples. She straddled my husband while her boyfriend fucked her in the ass. It looked so hot and she was totally into it. She kept telling me how incredible it felt. I wished it was me but again, the fear prevented me from doing it. I watched both guys fuck her until I started feeling a little awkward just watching so I started kissing her and playing with her tits. Then she started commanding her boyfriend to cum in her ass so he really picked up the pace and did just that. Later, after they’d left I asked dizzyguy how it was, what it felt like and if he liked it. He said that he did but it was a little strange being so close to the other guy.
The second time I watched a DP go down was during an encounter that didn’t go so well. We met this couple, went to a strip club and then got a hotel room. I think I suggested that she do DP and she was excited and eager to do it. This time dizzyguy was in the girl’s ass. I don’t remember this scenario being as hot and arousing for me as the first one. There was a strange chemistry between us and them. When dizzyguy started putting on the condom she told him he didn’t have to wear one. We both replied that it was a requirement of ours and she didn’t seem to mind but it was a little off putting. Both guys came while DP-ing her and then that’s where the encounter started to turn bad.
Her boyfriend couldn’t get hard again. Now I realize that not all guys can bounce right back and I didn’t expect that but I tried and tried to get him hard and it just wasn’t happening. Dizzyguy had already recuperated and was fucking his girlfriend and I started getting a weird vibe… like I was being left out of the action. Suddenly I didn’t feel too comfortable watching dizzyguy fuck another girl. He noticed what was going on with me and the other guy. I guess I gave him a look, like I wasn’t feeling great about what was happening because he wrapped it up pretty quick.
That’s when the girl realized what was going on and she proceeded to take an already awkward situation and make it so much worse. She asked her boyfriend to leave the hotel room so just the three of us could play. Needless to say, he wasn’t exactly thrilled that she wanted him to leave and it got really tense. Dizzyguy and I were still naked and were honestly a little concerned that the guy might totally flip out. So we rushed to get dressed, quickly thanked them for meeting with us and got the hell out of there.
Several days later, the guy calls and talks to dizzyguy. He says that his girlfriend wants to meet with just him so the three of them could play… without me. Dizzyguy politely reminded him that we didn’t do that sort of thing. But when I found out about it, I got totally pissed because this chick knew that we only played together. I couldn’t understand why she felt the need to get between us when there was no shortage of single men on that website (where we found them) who would have been more than happy to fulfill her desire for a threesome. So, I emailed her and really let her have it.
While it angered me immensely that they made the request in the first place, I was so happy to have a partner who was totally honest and up front about it and I never had to worry that he would sneak off to give her what she wanted. That’s the thing about swinging, you meet all different kinds of people and sometimes you have to deal with sticky little situations like this. You are dealing with people after all, and it can be unpredictable sometimes.
sounds like you two have a great relationship. I can imagine that like some thing swinging would be for a season then the memories linger to remind us of the good and not so good times.
She sounds like a twisted bag of loose bolts with a few fries missing from her happy meal.
Honesty is a wonderful thing, you sound like a great couple.
lol, I like your description of her.
When we reminisce about old times, we actually refer to that couple as “the wackos”.
Eeek, that would have put me right off. There’s a lot of work involved in getting that kind of chemistry to work :s
~Kazi xxx
It’s great that you two are so in sync and seem to have good communication. I’ve always thought DP was kind of scary, but a little bit hot, but totally not doable for me.
I’ve had DP with cock + toy, but not with cock + cock. One day!
xx Dee
I don’t think I’ll ever do the real thing. I’d definitely need more anal practice.
I share your fascination about a DP. I have never had one either, except of course with toys. I would really love to have one, to feel two men fucking me.
As for the woman trying to shut you out: terrible! And good that you indeed have a partner who keeps to the ‘rules’ you have made between the two of you. We too have a similar rule: anyone is allowed to fuck me, as long as my Husband is present. And when other people have their set of rules, we respect that.
Rebel xox
I have done DP lots with toys but I have also done it once with two cocks. It was back in my swinging days before I meet Sir. My then boyfriend and I were at a swinging club and joined in with another couple and a single guy. The partner of the other couple suggested it, it was actually very natural and just felt right. It was pretty fucking amazing, lots of lube and both guys taking it really easy. I came pretty fucking hard. I have never done it since but if the moment felt right again then I think I probably would
Mollyxxx
Taking time and dicussing things before and afterwards is always the key and always the tricky bit too.
Rachel x
I would love to try DP – I love anal and have done for years so its just a case of finding the right guy or couple that are happy to give it a go!!!
So good to that you are both so completely open with each other it does make the process so much easier and clearer when problems arise!
~Mia~ xx
That is a strong bond you guys have – I am sure it is very needed to get through such situations. As for DP – it isn’t really something I can aspire too (wrong anatomy :))
I would have felt really awkward with that last situation as well. Really shows a lot about your man that he was honest with you and upfront. Quite impressive actually.
Ahhh…the joys of swinging. Must have been in the air today – because I wrote about it, too. There can be great moments, and awful ones like this. Like you, I have a very honest relationship with a man I can trust. It makes the whole thing doable – since you know you are going home together and that you can leave the crazy behind.
And DP? Someday.
Fascinating. Really wonderful how you’ve got such good communication with your partner, and also an awareness of your own limits and desires. DP is something I’m quite curious about too… maybe one day. 😉
(But boy that couple sound like a pain to deal with!)
Trust and communication are awesome things to have with your partner. Strong couple in that.
People are all over the place, and complicate the simple (like you two always played together – pretty straightforward that one).
I fantasize about double penetration, too. My fiance and I have done it with toys, and I’ve used toys by myself during masturbation, but I’ve never had a threesome or tried swinging, so I haven’t had the opportunity to be with two men at once. I really don’t think I’ll ever have the chance because I feel like both of us would be too jealous to have sex with other people. I don’t think I’d be able to remove the emotional aspect of sex with my fiance from sex with another person, and I’d hate to watch him have sex with another woman. I know it’s silly, but I don’t even like the thought that my fiance might compare me to porn stars. (I keep my insecurity in that matter to myself because I watch porn, too, and it wouldn’t be fair to have a double standard about him watching porn.) I know I don’t stack up, so to speak, so I doubt I could handle him being with another woman in real life.