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This comment was posted on my review of the LELO GIGI 2 and then deleted by the person who submitted it. I really wanted to be able to respond to them so I decided to answer their questions in a post. Hopefully they see it and maybe it can be helpful to others as well.
This is embarrassing but my boyfriend bought me one and I can’t reach anything I mean is the first time I’ve ever use a g spot vibrator and I’ve never masturbate before with anything inserted so I don’t really know how it suppose to work, should I leave it there until I feel
Something? Should I move it when is inserted? Should I get inside and outside like I’m having real sex? I just inserted until the silicone ends and I don’t feel any kind of arousal I don’t know what in doing wrong or if is possible that I can’t have a vaginal orgasm, it work when I use it on the clit but it takes forever because it’s not strong enough. So can someone help me to know how to
Hit the g spot with this?
First of all, there is nothing to be embarrassed about. I have a good amount of experience with sex toys and even I still have to experiment and try different things to get some toys to work for me. That said, we’re all different and what works for me might not work for you and some toys might not be right for your body at all. But it’s not anything that you’re doing wrong because there is no right or wrong way to masturbate. You can feel free to experiment until you find something that feels good.
So, I never felt G-spot stimulation in my life until I started using toys. Sometimes, it can take a while to find it and figure out how it likes to be stimulated. Some people never do experience G-spot stimulation or orgasms from it no matter what toys they use. And some folks find out they really aren’t huge fans of the sensation.
In general, my G-spot prefers really intense stimulation, like applying a lot of pressure against it. To do this, I push down on the handle of the toy and that pushes the head of it into my G-spot. I don’t always thrust with G-spot toys, it just all depends on the toy. With some toys I like to do more of a rocking up and down motion with the handle. Sometimes, I like to just apply constant pressure to the G-spot while stimulating my clit with a vibe.
Speaking of the clit, you might want to try stimulating it with your fingers or another vibrator while you are using your GIGI 2 internally. Sometimes, arousal makes the G-spot easier to find. I can’t have orgasms from G-spot stimulation alone and that’s pretty common, though some people can. But I always have to use a vibe on my clit while I’m stimulating my G-spot to be able to orgasm from it.
The best advice I can give is to just relax and try different things until you hit on something that feels good. Try not to get too worried about it not working for you and have fun experimenting. I don’t know if you’re only trying to use your GIGI 2 with your boyfriend or if you are masturbating on your own but it might help if you spent some time alone with your toy. Not that there’s anything wrong with using it with your boyfriend but it might take the pressure off if you took some time on your own to figure out what feels good.
Try not to get discouraged and don’t try too hard. Just relax and have fun with it. If you never do find a way to make the GIGI 2 work for you, it may be that it’s just not the right toy for you. It happens, not all toys work for all bodies. I know it would be disappointing if you can’t make it work for you and I realize that these toys are not inexpensive. However, I think I’ve heard of more people having success with the LELO MONA 2 than the GIGI 2. I do like the GIGI 2 but the MONA 2 is more powerful and it’s larger, which might help.
Since these toys are rather expensive, one thing I can suggest is that you purchase them from Lovehoney. They don’t always have the lowest prices on stuff but they’re the only ones I know of that have a return policy, even if you’ve used the toy. So you might check that out next time you’re shopping for a new toy.
Yes!!
I spent my first few years with sex toys following the stereotype and just using all toys as if I was having sex, thinking that using clit stimulation was almost like cheating in the game of “Make me cum with a sex toy”. It can depend on so many things, from your mood, to your cycle, to the toy. I find vibrators are best if I just move them a little inside, pushing down on the handle exactly like you say. But dildos of course need a bit more push. There’s no right or wrong way to get off! And worst case scenario and you can’t climax from vaginal, that’s why the powers that be are just a little kind and gave us a clitoris.